Why are loving spiritual people attacked?
The real root of the problem is that our society is blind and ignorant about the spiritual anatomy of the human system.
People desperately seeking power will quickly sense it in a spiritual person. And they mistakenly believe that they will somehow be able to get it from that person. They may truly believe they are in love, but they are in love with the menu of spirituality they sense in front of them not the person. If you listen to them talk their agenda is not hidden. Their romantic prose will be filled with phrases like, we will make a great team, we should be in business together, imagine how powerful we both be, just think what you and I could do, etc. Because, I love you so much.
Unfortunately, it is only that last bit that the spiritual person tends to hear. Fortunately, it is impossible for someone to take your spiritual power. They can make you miserable and they can even hit you and belittle you, but they cannot take your spiritual power. It takes a very short time in a relationship that was built on the hope of acquiring power to start to break down. Then the disappointed person mistakenly feels that you do not want to share and becomes angry and hostile.
The only solution in a relationship of this kind is to exit it with as much grace as possible.
What does the person with powerful, spiritual, energy do to have a truly loving successful relationship?
First you must acknowledge who you are and your worth.
Then you are going to have to be patient enough to wait to find someone who is your spiritual equal or very near to it. If you are not spending time entangled with an ultimately unworkable relationship. You can use your spiritual power to attract to yourself someone more truly compatible.
You will know right away if you are on the right track. Instead of having to heal or fix your partner, you will be meditating, cooking, diving, and dancing together.